The Atlas of Intimacy book cover — burgundy hardcover with gold lettering

The Atlas of Intimacy

A compass for sexuality, pleasure and relationships

100% human-written — from lived experience
Seated figure from behind — fine art nude with dramatic rim lighting

No one wants casual, thoughtless sex.

A shag just isn't enough. That doesn't feed the heart or soul.

What we need now is intimacy.

We need depth. We need vulnerability. We need to be understood.

$39 $29 · Digital PDF · 438 pages

Elegant silhouette with pearl necklace — conscious sexuality and presence

Beyond the Five-Minute Shag

What if everything you thought you knew about sex was just the surface?

  • Is there really a difference between sex and intimacy?
  • What changes when you stop chasing the finish line?
  • Are orgasm and ejaculation actually the same thing?
From the book

"In conscious sexuality, orgasm and ejaculation are different mechanisms — and orgasm can be experienced without the latter."

"In conscious sex, orgasms embody a female nature — long-lasting, with their own rhythm and oscillation, and they're deeper as well."

Male and female silhouettes facing each other — the magnetic pull between masculine and feminine

The Magnetic Pull Between You

Why some couples can't keep their hands off each other — and how to get that back.

  • What makes masculine and feminine energy attract?
  • Why does passion fade — and how do you recharge it?
  • The four pillars of a connection that actually lasts.
From the book

"A man is like a book of matches — once struck, he ignites immediately, and could also go out quickly. A woman is like water: takes a long time to boil, and then stays warm for a while."

"The essential need of masculine energy is freedom. The essential need of feminine energy is connection and a sense of security."

Zebra-striped shadows across a body — light revealing what was hidden

The Secrets They Never Taught You

Centuries of wisdom, hidden by shame.

  • When did the most natural thing in the world become shameful?
  • Which ancient cultures got it spectacularly right?
  • The wildest rituals, the strangest rules, and the truths underneath.
From the book

"Ancient emperors had harems of several hundred women. So the rulers of old knew practices to allow the sexual act without spilling seed — redirecting the energy instead."

"The notion that a sexually experienced man is some legendary dude but a similar female counterpart is just a slut is an unfair double standard."

Group of people in a warm embrace — many forms of love and connection

More Ways to Love Than You Think

Monogamy, polyamory, and everything in between.

  • Is there only one "right" way to be in a relationship?
  • What is a physically monogamous open relationship?
  • How do you know which model works for your current stage of life?
From the book

"It's with a trustworthy partner that they have the confidence to undertake the journeys to the highest mountains and darkest valleys."

"When people face too wide a field of options, the decision making process becomes a burden."

Standing figure in ecstasy — the universe of sensation within the body

The Universe Inside Your Body

The science, the chemistry, and the forgotten map to pleasure.

  • What actually happens in your brain during orgasm?
  • How many types of orgasm can men and women experience?
  • What is the Coolidge effect — and is it hijacking your desire?
From the book

"The feeling of connection and unity achieved through intimacy and sex is the most accessible mystical experience people can have."

"If emotional intimacy in a relationship is lost, sex becomes like an obligation, not a way of sharing pleasure and closeness."

$39 $29 · Digital PDF · 438 pages

Tom Walsberg — author portrait

Tom Walsberg

Author, conscious sexuality educator

After years studying Taoist teachings, tantric practices, and conscious sexuality across dozens of seminars and 70+ books, Tom distilled 15 years of research and personal experience into The Atlas of Intimacy — a compass for anyone ready to transform their relationship with pleasure, connection, and themselves.

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Digital PDF · 438 pages · Identical to the hardcover — every illustration, every photo, every page exactly as printed.

100% human-written — from lived experience